Why has a disappointing sex life with your partner become the norm? While all of the above may be true, no one is saying the biggest overarching reason: She probably was at some point in the past but not currently. The research shows that women like to be desired and taken by their man.Everywhere I look, people preach that passionless long-term relationships and marriages are inevitable. Right now you don’t get her turned on to the point where she can’t control herself. You stopped expressing your sexuality and you don’t tap into her sexual desires. “In the lab, women are responding generally to scenarios of sexual assault.
So if it’s not a lack of resources, then maybe the resources are wrong. “You don’t know what the hell you’re talking about Nick! Men tend to put little effort into stirring their woman’s sexual emotions.
Although not too much of a hedonist – whereas men with tattoos tended to do better with the opposite sex, women with tattoos are a turn off. Incidentally, the words ‘model’ and ‘actor’ are also popular – either a sign that men tend to go for women who are models, or proof that you can just say you’re a model on your profile and men will automatically feel more attracted to you – is it genuinely that simple?
I’m inclined to take most of the data with a pinch of salt, but there’s still a grain of truth there.
Even more bafflingly, men who use whom instead of who tend to get 31 per cent more contact from the opposite sex. Popular words for women include yoga, athlete, surfing, Homeland and Radiohead.
It makes sense – show me a man who doesn’t want a physically fit, stretchy woman who loves wearing a wet suit and watching boxsets and I’ll show you … Meditation, ocean, creativity, hiking and awareness are popular buzzwords, bringing to mind a Zenned-out, sporty hippy chick, who’s happy doing downward dogs on the beach after a day of something surfy.