If she has a bad impression of you from the start, she's not clicking on your profile.
And if you're thinking about skipping photos altogether, consider what Steven D. Dubner wrote in their book “Freakonomics”: A low-income, poorly-educated, unhappily employed, not very attractive slightly overweight and balding man who posts his photo stands a better chance at gleaning some emails than a man who says he makes 0,000 a year and is deadly handsome but doesn't post a photo.
One final piece of advice: You have to stand out, so be interesting. Don’t look back or think about why she never contacted you – because you will never know why. When someone is having issues with getting matches, it is often times because their settings are just too restrictive.
Share the parts of you that are cool and worthy of discussion. You can discuss your porcelain doll collection on the 10th date. Including one photo of yourself is not really enough. Take another look at them, and consider being more flexible.
A good rule of thumb: if you aren’t available for a date within 7 days of sending the message, don’t send it.
What the hell are you supposed to say about yourself in your profile? [pagebreak] OUT-OF-TOWN AND OUT OF TOUCH The scenario: “A guy sent me a message saying that he wanted to meet up for a drink, but when I asked when he was free, he said he was ‘going out of town’ for the next two weeks and that we should schedule something after.” — Andrea, 31 The problem..the solution: If you tell a girl you’re “going out of town,” she’s going to assume you’re busy dating other women.Women want to get a sense of who you are – and this can be done through photos very easily. If you are confused – e Harmony’s Customer Care team is great at helping! 40 is the new 30 these days, so consider being more flexible about age.If you are at an office or shared network, you can ask the network administrator to run a scan across the network looking for misconfigured or infected devices., like, “a guy told me he was looking for a girlfriend by next year so he’d have someone to split rent with.” Then there was the charmer who told his date about the time he “got wasted, peed and mopped it up with his clothes, and then wore them.” Um, yeah., we’d like to assume you know better than to make mistakes like these.A lot of guys spend HOURS browsing potential matches and messaging dozens of women only to be ignored completely.