The bad news is that everything you thought you knew about dating is wrong.
I'll take you to a dive bar with amazing burgers to see how you react.
There has been some controversy over some literature published in the USA that lays out in detail the rules a woman should follow to get her guy (or gal).
Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider's 1995 bestseller "The Rules," explains how women should play hard if they want to get their guy.
Many arranged marriages work all too interestingly.
"Always waiting for the guy to initiate contact is annoying to most men," says Harold, 35.