But, enough about Adam (Sorry, man), let’s get to what this is really about, the 9 signs you’re dating a man, not a boy._____________________________________________________ I was once a boy, now I’m a man.Check out these signs that might help you figure out if you’re dating a loser…Before we start, it's important to clarify what we mean by “loser.”We aren't talking about a “nerd” loser, like someone who knows all the letters in the alphabet and who has probably been plotting to kill us for years of torment in high school.No, we are talking about those degenerate, unemployed, starter-cap wearing, no-hope bums who still live at home with their parents, yet inexplicably manage to date hot girls.As much as we dread being the bearers of bad news, there is a possibility that you may have have fallen madly in love with a sociopath.
For those of you unfamiliar, Adam runs a website called Sexy Confidence.com, and has been featured by multiple major media outlets such as Cosmopolitan, MTV, CNN, Glamour, and quite a few more.This is the one who falls in love with you immediately ("immediately" being somewhere in the range of two to four weeks). Just a few days and abrupt emails later, all modes of communication are down, and a happenstance meeting on the street leaves you with nothing but a cold shoulder.While he almost makes you choke on your taco when he tells you he loves you after only a handful of dates, you tell yourself you should really "trust" him. After a full week of silence, your two best friends are willing you to "eat something." By week 12, you're strangers in the night, and all voicemails/emails go unanswered. You, however, may have diarrhea for the rest of the summer. Charm is great, but a talented charmer can turn it on anywhere, any time, with anyone.But here’s the problem—most women spend their time #1 Boys avoid uncomfortable conversations – men know how to communicate their needs. You’re going to do or say something he doesn’t like—it’s inevitable.Boys are passive aggressive, whereas a mature man will have a productive conversation with you…even if it’s a little awkward.These players tend to tug people’s heartstrings to ‘spice up’ the game or to make it more interesting for them.