But before anyone can get married they have to go through the process of getting to know a person and pursuing love for them (at least if you practice the Western tradition of pursuing marriage). It’s also hard, excruciating, joyful, hurtful, and incredibly fulfilling — at least this is what married people tell me, and from watching them, I believe it. SEE ALSO: 11 Things Every Single Christian Should Know Crazy, I know. Men, if you’re serious about the girl you’re dating (as you should be), then pursue her friendship. Then read , and keep doing point number one listed above. Paul makes over 200 references to union with Christ in the New Testament. Feast on the gospel daily, and allow the power of the Spirit to empower your pursuit of purity. My best advice to pursue purity is to meet with a married Christian couple you know and trust and talk to them about sexual purity in your dating relationship.God wants for you find romance and have a life spouse to love and care for, but not at the expense of your mind or body.God's plan for the Christian is exactly the opposite of what most believers seek when looking for their soul mate.
(Proverbs -23, NKJV) This deceitful woman is an ugly woman because she is self-driven and wants her way.
But take heart: If you’re pursing godliness, the Lord will sustain you and keep you on track.
This part is hard, and Lord knows I haven’t been perfect.
So here goes: Your quality and purpose of life is not determined by whether or not you date or get married.
Always pursue God and health (spiritual, emotional, and physical) and you will be fine.