When dating a married man, you have to clarify the terms of the affair from the start.
Having an affair with someone else’s husband is usually trip from ecstatic highs to a depressing end.
At this point you may be asking your friends what they think because nothing physical has happened.
o Beautify and perfume yourself o Start with good news and delay any bad news until he has rested o Receive him with loving and yearning sentences o Make hard efforts for excellence of the food & having it ready on time.
o Keep your body clean and smelling good as possible including cleaning yourself of released fluids during intercourse. o You shouldn’t be depressed because your husband is poor or works in a simple job.
o You should look at poor, sick, and handicapped people and remember Allah (SWT) for all that was given to you o You should remember that real wealth lays in Iman and piety.
If you are a married man’s lover you have to bear in mind that he has a wife and would be spending most of his time with his wife and family.
You have to come to terms with the fact that you are the other woman and in no way let your jealousy get the better of you.
The script unfolds predictably where you become a special friend and the two of you have harmless lunches, coffee, etc?
The writing was on the wall, however, that this man had something to hide.
One day she saw him not more than ten houses down the street mowing his lawn.
She is an attractive woman who lived on a busy street, and a man stopped his car when he saw her walking from her home to her car, and he introduced himself.
When Deborah told me about this man, I was very skeptical, and said that it is a very random thing to do, for a man to be driving around and compliment your appearance. She was flattered by him, and being easily flattered can be one of the most destructive things that can happen to our egos in the overall picture of things.