While many start off with intentions of finding a godly partner, with each passing year the waiting feels longer and the hoping gets harder.
Slowly, we can find ourselves starting to second-guess our original standards, wondering if we've been too extreme or unrealistic.
It’s going to mess you up, confuse your heart, and potentially smother your soul.
For instance, if two people get together in the hopes of falling love and getting married, that’s no problem; if two people are just dating, or even just sleeping together, still no problem.
But, if one of you wants to get married and the other is just in it for the sex, you are in for problems.
Or, as a friend of mine once said: “Be careful you aren’t having sex with someone who’s making love!
”The same thing is true when it comes to spirituality.