As we all know (and as I’ve often vented about here) dating in New York is not easy. And it appears we’re not the only ones mourning the death of the old fashioned phone call. It seems Australians love texting and chatting before going on the date: only irritating but also more than likely, it can create confusion. There is this little thing that makes communication fully functional. Sarcasm is just not the same and you often wonder does ‘LOL’ really mean they are “laughing out loud”? I must agree with this post about Australian men and their very confusing behaviours. Sounds like you’ve either met what you’ve described as emotionally retarded guys which there’d be plenty of here compared to European and South American or even American men, or they’re, hate to say it, “just not that into you”.
Anyone who tells you otherwise simply hasn’t sat across the very awesome suitors I’ve had the pleasure to break bread and drink with over the past few months (including one who decided that dinner is the perfect place to discuss morning wood. Please welcome the lovely Rihanne as she offers her take on dating down under and be sure to check out Sweety Text Messages to send a loved one an actual romantic message–they do still exist (no sexting, please! *** Australians do things a little differently than the rest of the world – for example: supposedly, we all talk like Steve Irwin (The Crocodile Hunter) and eat our national emblems (Kangaroo and Emu). Australians can leave people scratching their heads saying crikey! What happened to the days when a guy asked for a woman’s number to call her? This is pretty much what I’ve been going through with the last few guys I’ve “dated”… No idea what he’s thinking, no idea what I am to him, no signs of whether he likes me, and it’s getting so frustrating. Australian men love foreign women, if they’re shy it’s because they are probably transfixed by your beauty and make a big thing in their head about you.
Photo: Sérgio Bernardino WHEN I WAS GROWING UP, I thought all Australian guys had sun-kissed skin, blonde hair, crystal blue eyes, and lived their lives on their surfboards. It seemed like blasphemy, but such is the case when you grow up with some of the world’s most beautiful beaches right at your doorstep every day. I remember pleading for a gradual re-introduction to red meat before I moved to Australia, and I soon learned that I’d have no choice but to love it. There’s no whining or whinging when you’re camping out in the bush or when you don’t want to watch The Footy Show after just watching hours of the actual footy game. But when you’re dating an Australian, you’ll learn to nod when he tells you some really (I mean like really) obscure score, and you’ll learn to live with this never-ending game. Life stops for such events, and you’d better hope Australia (and in the case of State of Origin, your preferred team) wins, otherwise your boyfriend will be one unhappy sports fan.
And then I found myself dating an Australian who, for the most part, really couldn’t be fussed going to the beach. Each summer I’d be up and ready for the beach, swimmers on and sunblock spread thoroughly (re: not wearing enough for Australian sun), and he’d want to go the mall or to the hardware store. Not only did I learn that not all Australians live their lives at the beach or surfing, but they also don’t use the word “shrimp”…which ruins every American attempt at pretending to be an Australian by saying, “Throw another shrimp on the barbie, mate! Australians love their steak, their snags, their rissoles, their lamb, their meat pies — the list goes on.
By the end of your relationship, you’ll learn that your Australian boyfriend is a true blue (and if you’ve ever dated an Australian, cue the True Blue drinking song in your head) always and forever.
Having a relationship with someone is important in all cultures, however the process of dating is different according to countries.
Dating Customs on Various Continents Dating in Australia for example is illustrated by teens going out in large groups without really forming couples until they reach 18 or 19 years of age.
Here, it is not the boys who often make the first step of asking girls to go on a date with them, rather the girls take this part and they also take the responsibility of paying for the date.
Chris Walker-Bush, an Australian who spent time teaching English in Korea, writes on his blog Aussie on the Road that it’s common to see Korean men carry around their girlfriend’s purse while out shopping, but that’s not likely to continue into marriage.
While the man may be a bit docile and accommodating to the woman while dating, the woman slips into a traditional subservient role once the deal is closed.